My Wingman

My Wingman

If you had asked me a couple of years ago if I was going to get married, I would have told you that I didn’t know. Getting married has always been a part of what I wanted to do with my life, but at that point it just didn’t seem to be what God was doing, …read more →

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Sleeping arrangements.

Dear Future Husband, I’ve been thinking about post-wedding sleeping arrangements and figured there are a few things it is important for you to know about… 1. I know a couple who shared a twin bed for the first year or two of their marriage because that’s what was given to them (SIDE NOTE: Honestly, what …read more →

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Enjoying the Wonder

It’s been a while since I said this, so I’ll say it now: It’s so nice being single. There are so many advantages to independence that they are almost too numerous to count. Between “Dear Future Husband” posts, friend’s weddings, and friendly questions/encouragements I can imagine that it would be an easy assumption that I …read more →

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I will wait…

This post is really a letter to future me. Me in 1 year, me in 5 years, possibly me in 10 or 20 years. You’re welcome to read it if you’d like, and while I say this with healthy fear and trepidation, you’re welcome to lovingly hold me to it. You see, this post is …read more →

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Location, location, location.

Dear Future Husband, Yesterday, here in New England, it got pretty toasty. Along with humidity it was well over 100 degrees Fahrenheit. As I sat, “glistening” in my office, I realized that I don’t like hot weather and it doesn’t like me. Really, when I think about it, I never have. Humidity literally makes me sick. …read more →

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Lucky You

Dear Future Husband, Not to sound conceded or anything, but you’re in for a treat. It was a smart move on your part to chill out and wait for a while before showing up. You see, as I look back over the years at all the times I thought I was ready to get married …read more →

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Gender Roles

Dear Future Husband, The concept of gender roles has come up recently and it’s gotten me thinking. But before we get to my thoughts on the subject, here’s what sparked them: Over the past few months I’ve done some work on my car, well more specifically, I’ve paid mechanics to do some work on my …read more →

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Money Making Opportunity

Dear Future Husband, I have decided that I would like to write a book about our love story. Not only is this a wonderful way to document all the wonderful times we will have together, but also a viable source of income. Now, I understand that this puts just a bit of pressure on you …read more →

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Desperate to be a housewife?

I have realized lately that my fear of being misunderstood keeps me from writing a lot of things I think about. One of the areas that I most fear misunderstanding is that of relationships. Being 26, and having many friends who love me, I have endured my fair share of well-intentioned meddling (aka. getting set …read more →

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Can we be like this?

Dear Future Husband, Yesterday, while at the fabric store, I saw a really cute, old couple. He had on suspenders, she had bobby pin curls. When they walked in, her normally well hair-sprayed hair was a bit windblown, but he fixed it for her. Later on, I saw him bring some fabric to the cutting …read more →

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