14 Reasons it's good to be single on V-day

14 Reasons it's good to be single on V-day

1 ) You save money on presents, candy, and all kinds of sentimental mush. 2 ) You save hundreds of calories otherwise spent eating said meal, desserts, and candies. 3 ) No need to figure out how to out do last year’s gift. 4 ) You have all the Chinese food restaurants to yourself. (In lue of …read more →

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"I'm so much cooler online" and other online dating pitfalls

I have such mixed feelings about online dating. It’s how two of my sisters met their husbands, as well as a few friends I know. Even with these success stories, it just seems a little odd to me. Sure, I’ve given it a try, with interesting results. There are a few Christian sites that have …read more →

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Money Making Opportunity

Dear Future Husband, I have decided that I would like to write a book about our love story. Not only is this a wonderful way to document all the wonderful times we will have together, but also a viable source of income. Now, I understand that this puts just a bit of pressure on you …read more →

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Lessons from hamster love

Catchy title huh? Well it’s almost Valentines day and the marketing specialists are in high gear. Love is in the air and in a store near you. I’ve been thinking a bit recently about how we show love and feel loved by others and remembered a fun analogy I heard at a conference a few months ago. …read more →

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Desperate to be a housewife?

I have realized lately that my fear of being misunderstood keeps me from writing a lot of things I think about. One of the areas that I most fear misunderstanding is that of relationships. Being 26, and having many friends who love me, I have endured my fair share of well-intentioned meddling (aka. getting set …read more →

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Can we be like this?

Dear Future Husband, Yesterday, while at the fabric store, I saw a really cute, old couple. He had on suspenders, she had bobby pin curls. When they walked in, her normally well hair-sprayed hair was a bit windblown, but he fixed it for her. Later on, I saw him bring some fabric to the cutting …read more →

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What’s good for the goose…

NOTE: This is not a feminist propaganda post, though I’m not sure exactly what to categorize it as. While it is about gender equality, it may, in fact be a call to the opposite side of the coin as normally discussed. Inequality has been a buzz word for the last century or more. Racial, gender, …read more →

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FYI

Dear Future Husband, By the time you are reading this you will have discovered that I am, well, unique. Its part of what you love about me. In as much, there are some things that will be helpful for you to know that I can’t just come out and tell you. However, I am using …read more →

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The Relationship Canoe

A few months ago I went for a canoe ride, nothing fancy, just a few times around the lake. I sat in the front, what’s that called? The stern? Ahh nope, just checked on google, I was in the bow 🙂 Anyway… Generally speaking, steering happens in the stern (the back) and the front paddling …read more →

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My chagrin with the “Proverbs 31 Woman”

As promised…why I have issue with the Proverbs 31 Woman (here after referred to as P31W). SHE’S NOT REAL, never was and never will be. Ahh, I feel better. Let’s expound shall we. I’ve been attending female focused workshops, retreats, conferences and book studies for a while now and its getting to the point that …read more →

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