I don’t want a 50/50 marriage

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I don’t want a 50/50 marriage

Split the work. Cut it in half. I do mine, you do yours. Do away with gender roles. Everything even. This is the modern concept of marriage. But does it really work? Is it really what we want? This morning I spent about 30 minutes in the kitchen cleaning up after some company my roommates […]

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8 ways to actually keep your New Year’s Resolutions

It’s Sunday, January 10th. Do you know where your resolutions are? If you’re normal, you probably haven’t seen them since January 3rd, (or even 2nd.) It’s ok, you’re not alone. Most of us fall into one of two mindsets: someone who makes the same resolutions every year but never actually does them or someone who has realized […]

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What did you expect?

Have you ever gotten the distinct sensation that God is laughing at you? Not a cruel, cynical sound, but that “knowing” laugh where He quietly shakes His head and chuckles because He just thinks you’re so cute! That’s the laugh I got today. Yesterday was a sad day. Yesterday the old year and the new year […]

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This time it’s personal

What’s your nationality? For the vast majority of my readers, the truest answer is that we’re American. From there we can reach back in our heritage and lay claim to cultures farther away: My dad’s parents came from Italy, my mom’s ancestors from Scotland and Ireland. Depending on the day, I may be more apt to claim […]

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Romania or Bust

Today I’m working on renewing my passport. It’s a bittersweet task; bitter because, while I’ve had the passport for a full 10 years, I haven’t actually gone anywhere (much to my own frustration and my parents immense joy) but sweet because that’s all going to change very soon. Let me tell you about it. If […]

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The Art of Giving Offense

One of the things I love about Jesus is that he rarely did what people thought he should do. When his mom and brothers came demanding his attention, he looked around at the random crowd surrounding him and said, “These are my mothers, brothers and sisters.” The authorities expected a king with an army, he came as […]

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My Wingman

If you had asked me a couple of years ago if I was going to get married, I would have told you that I didn’t know. Getting married has always been a part of what I wanted to do with my life, but at that point it just didn’t seem to be what God was doing, […]

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You Got This Boo!

Supposedly, everyone knows that men love the challenge of pursuing and winning a women, and women love being valued highly enough to be pursued and won. This is human nature 101. However, if you ask just about any person who’s single or who got married after the age of 20, you’ll probably hear about how love […]

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Who’s Your Daddy

Have you ever read the Dr. Seuss book, “Are you my mother?” If not, here’s the Cliff Note version: a mother bird notices that her egg is about to hatch, so flies off to find a worm for her new baby, only while she’s away her egg hatches. Noticing that it’s all alone, the baby bird […]

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Among my trappings and belongings

If you were to ask me what the deepest desire of my heart is, I think you’d be surprised by my answer, mostly because I was a bit surprised when I realized it too! We moved several times while growing up. This is simply fact, I’m not saying it was bad or good. In fact, […]

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